If there’s such a thing as a rock star of the couples therapy world, Esther Perel would unequivocally be it. She’s the author of the groundbreaking works including Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence and The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity, as well as the host of the addictive podcast Where Should We Begin?, where listeners get to sit in on real-life couples therapy sessions. Her insights on intimacy, communication and connection hold value for us all–not just those in romantic relationships–so we were thrilled to get the chance to chat with Esther about relationships, our stories, and of course, all our new beginnings. Check out Brooke’s conversation with Esther above, and to learn more, visit her website here.