Some consider her the real-life Carrie Bradshaw, but the truth is that writer and performer Candace Bushnell (who wrote the book Sex and the City!) has a much fuller life than even that. Here, she and Brooke Shields talk about aging and ageism, divorce, dating after divorce, menopause and new beginnings. She calls life after menopause “the third act,” and needless to say, we agree.